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Things I would like to do before death
Things I would like to do before death
Couple of years ago, when I was vacationing in Bosnia and Herzegovina, I was fascinated by art of coffee drinking and laid back way of life. Those two interlaced and were among reasons I came to live in Bosnia and Herzegovina. Nowadays, I feel that my fascination has faded. I do not see what I once saw.
Laid way of life is pure laziness now to me. Art of coffee drinking is now art of word bashing people (mostly someone known or even friends) or art of giving unwanted and not asked for advices. Waste of time and character pretty much!
I do not quite know why latter is so upsetting to me. Maybe it is argumentative conversation where I am on defense that I am literary forced into, maybe it is other persons assumed right to get into core of my life and being, maybe it is that I just wanted to be listened to, maybe I just wanted to drink coffee …
In simple terms helping someone, by advising in this case, is noble and intent is good. However, it is far from being simple. People (friends) that are trying to help, are looking out for my best interest but not really understanding what’s best for me. Sometimes, most of the times, quiet laid back cup of coffee will do just fine.